What are the best practices for storing couples and households? Currently, every contact is an individual and a household is created for couples and families only. This causes two undesirable outcomes.
1) When creating labels, if I select the 'merge all contacts of the same household' option, the children are also included in the label. I just want the parents.
2) When making PDF letters for all my contacts, I only want 1 letter per household but I end up with one for each spouse.
How do you avoid this situation?